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Ah homecoming, it's a joy and a burden. It is becoming harder and harder to find modest formal dresses, and it's always a debate whether to spend "years" looking for a modest dress or to just buy an immodest one that can be altered. I decided to have this one altered. Originally, this dress didn't have any sleeves or straps but we were fortunate enough to find perfectly matching fabric. My mom and I had a discussion on whether or not this "sleeve" would be considered modest, and I actually don't have the answer. I think it is fine because it covers the cap of my shoulder, but obviously it wouldn't cover enough for an endowed member of the church. My mom also felt it was a bit low in the front. When dealing with modesty I think there is somewhat of a grey area. We have guidelines in For the Strength of Youth book, but there are still so many nuances left to personal interpretation. If you have any question or comments feel free to leave them below and I will try to answer to the best of my ability.
love love love it all. love love love the hair and the dress and the everything.
ReplyDeleteMy vote on modest: I think there's no cleavage...so you're in a safe zone. Also, I love the sleeves you added. It's tasteful, elegant and probably more comfortable than a sleeve that would cut closer to the arm pits. I also think modesty is a lot about how a girl carries herself. With great posture-which you have, this is a 10
I think you look beautiful, although I have to agree with your mom. My mom always told us if you can't wear it with garments then it's not modest. I agree, it is getting tough to find modest things. Hope you had fun.
ReplyDeleteIt's on the line for me too. I haven't decided how I actually feel about the cap sleeve that is so popular right now. But, I have to say, you look stunning!
ReplyDeleteK I had the same questions. I don't know if you saw my dress, but it didn't quite cover my whole shoulder. It would look dumb with a shrug and it was high enough in the front and I loved it. So you know what? I wore it the way it was and I dint regret it at all! I felt comfortable, I don't wear garments yet and ultimately my decision came down to this: the only reason I'd add a shrug was because I was afraid people would judge me. And that's NOT why I choose to be modest. Good for you for sticking to your personal beliefs!
ReplyDeleteWe are wanting to do the same thing for some bridesmaid dresses. Three will be wearing garments so need to make sleeves that will cover the shoulders well and not have anything peaking out. Can you tell me what you trimmed the sleeves with? The dresses are the same color as this one.
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